In order for a person to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not necessary to create a romantic atmosphere with candles at all. This can happen anywhere, anytime. Erotic background can appear unexpectedly during work, walking in the woods or a simple conversation.
To the question: "How do we know that a man is aroused? " - Every girl will confidently answer that it is noticeable on the erection. In fact, everything is not as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to own a woman betrays the appearance, facial expression, body movements of a man. Speech can only convey the information that a person intends to convey to others, and the face and body will betray the true feelings and state of an excited man.
There are certain signs to understand that a man is aroused.
The most proven and accurate way to check if a man is aroused is to look at his pants just below the waist or even better, to touch his hand.
Erection is the dominant sign of a man's sexual arousal. At the moment of the influx of blood to the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure may coincide with the blood pressure, which allows the organ to change its shape and increase in size.
There are times when emotional sexual arousal does not cause an erection. This is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes, psychological distress or stress.
Nonverbal cues
There are several non-verbal bodily signals that speak better than any words about a man's sexual condition.
- During the conversation, the person involuntarily begins to approach the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. This will be followed by a light touch on the hands and feet. This gesture will not lead to active action, it will be almost invisible. But that's how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is nearby, the man wants to touch her, to hug her. But it so happens that circumstances do not allow this and he tries to take his hands: fastens and unbuttons the collar, plays with a tie, turns a button, straightens and ruffles his hair, tightens his jacket. With enough excitement, the young man wants his partner to know about it. The man may get excited when he touches her hand or other parts of the body, straightens the lady's hair, looks for each other as he literally leans close. So don't be surprised when an outwardly calm gentleman suddenly starts actively helping out of the car or serving a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way to touch the object that interests you. When sexual arousal comes, the man automatically begins to caress and turn in his hands an object that has fallen into his hands, which has the shape of a cylinder. Whether it is a pen, a cup, etc. This is no longer a signal, but a decisive complaint.
Stage of courtship
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, then he will definitely determine this by his behavior. If the meeting is held in a restaurant, he will fill the glass with wine, offer a snack and help sit in a chair and get up from it. He will do all this not only thanks to a good upbringing, but his actions will be guided by the instinct of the male principle - to get an additional opportunity to touch the object of his desire. This expression of concern suggests that the young man is planning breakfast together.
Poses of a man
Noticing a sexually interesting girl, the inner switch of the conqueror of the female heart switches to the "alpha male" position. And here begin the movements that will tell about the interest of the man: quickly pulling the abdomen, straightening the back (a hint of good physical shape), turning the shoulders, sitting, lifting the legs. Such a gesture seems to suggest that he has something to offer a woman.
In addition, in front of the object of his adoration, man tries to appear in a favorable light. He stands up, pulls his stomach, straightens his chest.
Sometimes the signs of initial arousal can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such gestures. They give off excitement. Touching or licking the lips unequivocally hints at the sexual nuance of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Rapid breathing, enlarged pupils, open lips, a slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional signal that the man's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- Slightly dilated nostrils seem to capture the scent of the female, which shows obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst appears, which is associated with a rise in body temperature.
- We see blush on the cheeks.
- Touching the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these areas, the person tries to hide the reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When aroused, the facial skin becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a person is obsessed with passion, he loses control of his eyes and speech. With a blurred look, flushed and pale, even the most sensible man begins to wear such nonsense that a girl may doubt its adequacy. It's simple - at this time, information is processed that is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an aroused state will be the deviation of the topic of conversation to intimacy. Erotic association can arise in him when discussing everyday life and everyday things.
Every man is aroused by the visual image. In order for a woman not to have to constantly monitor her erection and listen to her partner's breathing, for fear of missing a moment of nascent excitement, it is worth learning to interest the man and attract his attention.
And in conclusion, a little advice - during foreplay do not turn off the light, because a young man, not seeing a girl, will not be able to get aroused enough and she will not know if he is ready for sexual exploits.